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Monday, June 16, 2014
Veteran's Health
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
On this day 40 some odd years ago was born under stressful
conditions. Carrie and Paul high school sweet hearts that married at a young and
tender age gave life to a female child. Little did they know that their child
would endure great turmoil during her formative years. It was awful times being
ridicule for the color of her skin, the gap in her teeth and the thickness and
length of her hair. Being called, burnt bologna and “you so black you are blue”
just to name a few. Would transform into a lovely lady.
She has developed websites
wwwfabulouslyfortyblogspot.com, https://www.facebook.com/BeforeMotherhood,
and http:beforemotherhood.com to address the issues that obstructive the
successful roads of our young ladies. She has written a book for her daughters
“Your Mother Knew what She was Talking About” in hopes to shield their lives
from heartache and pain, and guidance through life.
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
My recent thoughts......
It is so crazy that I hate Maryland--I wanted to leave Va., and explore different opportunities. I wasn't going to move to Md. being some one's girlfriend--too old for that.....I think it was a turn around for me when I lost the HOUSE. I felt and reasoned with myself that in needed to be freed from the bounds of the HOUSE. I thought with whom I married was my knight in shinny skin. I have looked around a looked at what was really real around me......and the real of what saw was not so shiny or pretty or wonderful at all. It has been an unpleasant experience with the move here. At the onset the Girls were not having an easy adjustment.
Things I don't like:
1. Place/area
2. Rate of pay
3. It is not what I hoped for
4. People
5. Behaviors and the mindset of the people
Family is very important to me and appearance seems to be important to others. I thought that the children and the adults would come together and enjoy the union. In a city with all these family members no contact with them at all. We have to drive almost 14 hours see the people that mean the most to me.
Every day I complain about where I am and what I am not doing. I have decided to devise a plan to improve the situation.
1. Complete MBA
2. Submit the National Certification application
3. Clear up the issues on my credit
4. Move and buy another home
5. Get closer to my family and develop a better relationship with the people whom means the MOST to me.
The list doesn't seem long--I think I can do it. The amount is the same on both ends of the scale.....
Things I don't like:
1. Place/area
2. Rate of pay
3. It is not what I hoped for
4. People
5. Behaviors and the mindset of the people
Family is very important to me and appearance seems to be important to others. I thought that the children and the adults would come together and enjoy the union. In a city with all these family members no contact with them at all. We have to drive almost 14 hours see the people that mean the most to me.
Every day I complain about where I am and what I am not doing. I have decided to devise a plan to improve the situation.
1. Complete MBA
2. Submit the National Certification application
3. Clear up the issues on my credit
4. Move and buy another home
5. Get closer to my family and develop a better relationship with the people whom means the MOST to me.
The list doesn't seem long--I think I can do it. The amount is the same on both ends of the scale.....
Thursday, April 12, 2012
Hello My Old-New You!!!
We as the female group --will have to learn that everything that shines anit a real thing--it could have been the sun in your eyes that caused you to be missed lead. How do you correct your mistake? Own-up to the mistake by being honest to yourself, put on a pair of Coach framed shades and step out on what you know to be TRUE--and that is all you have known for the better part of your life, "your own free will". You enjoy your ability to maintain your life style on your own. You relish in "making moves" when ever how ever you choose to. You feel good with watching your children achieve their goals that they set for themselves, knowing you had a HAND in it. Plan your return to "LIFE" and then watch the barriers roll out the WAY and then you will be able to see thru the bullshit and OBSERVE the real beauty which is the Old-New You.............Love Always, Tonya Johnson
Friday, January 6, 2012
What a PRODUCTION
I could not believe that I was the mother of a 21 year old. I was shocked to have raised a child that now has a child. I have been all over the place with the fact my child has a child. I had hoped that she would have prepared me mentally for our blessing. I know so many of US wanted more and better for our children. I know I spent 18 years trying to get myself ready for my child to become an adult. I had hoped that she would be a senior in college entering into her graduate program. I hoped that she would be an intern for the next fortune 500 company. I had hoped for my child to find the cure for cancer and HIV. I hoped that my child would be getting ready to design the next skyscraper. But instead my daughter has produce the most precious production of them all MY GRAND DAUGHTER- MIA E. HAGA....I couldn't ask for anything more from her.
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Making some progress towards my GOALs
Well Well my 16 followers I would like to thank you for your continued support. The interesting thing is that I have completed my book to my GIRLS and I'm now a grandmother. At first I was trying to get over the idea about my OLDEST turning 21 now a full adult and than she turned me into a grandparent. I was more worried with the idea that she was unable to take care of herself let alone a child. The child is now the single most important factor in her life is her daughter. My her daughter bring to hear what she brought to me. Since my daughter knows all may she receive the same amount.
OK back to me----I have finally completed the book and my next move is to scan the pictures with me and my babies to remember me by---I'm excited about it. I am now in another masters OMG to that. I have secure a city position in Baltimore not the salary. I will be securing a town home until the house is built for the family of 10.
I have learned that learnt is actually a word---and that your friends are not always your best source of support or family members. Sometimes we must be our own cheerleaders make your plan and stay the course and handle your own business.
The question I posed to you all and to myself, "What is your talent?" I have been asking myself that question lately. I have none but I will have to ensure my daughters are well aware of there talents and self-worth.
OK back to me----I have finally completed the book and my next move is to scan the pictures with me and my babies to remember me by---I'm excited about it. I am now in another masters OMG to that. I have secure a city position in Baltimore not the salary. I will be securing a town home until the house is built for the family of 10.
I have learned that learnt is actually a word---and that your friends are not always your best source of support or family members. Sometimes we must be our own cheerleaders make your plan and stay the course and handle your own business.
The question I posed to you all and to myself, "What is your talent?" I have been asking myself that question lately. I have none but I will have to ensure my daughters are well aware of there talents and self-worth.
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Getting It Together
I have located the written documents of my life and forwarded my transcripts to the next University that will assist me in my educational success.........I have decided on 2 or 3 titles-"My Life as an Open Book---Lessons From Mom---What Did I tell You?"
Why did a man whom as been married more than twice write a book telling US women how to get a man. Apparently, none of the women he was involved in was able to keep him. Why is it so easy for US to listen to men---because we always want one?
Why did a man whom as been married more than twice write a book telling US women how to get a man. Apparently, none of the women he was involved in was able to keep him. Why is it so easy for US to listen to men---because we always want one?
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