Dating @ 40

Dating @ 40

By Tonya Johnson



Hummm…. A VERY DIFFICULT task to undertake. We have accomplished so much at this point in our lives but being single and loving it--- is a lie. I think we tell our selves I have plenty to do and I don’t have time for the non-sense of trying to break thru the drama of getting to know yet another guy. Well LADIES a woman has got to do what A WOMAN has to do. We have lists and characteristics that we want our potential “Man” to possess but did we take the same inventory of our shelves. We want them tall, sexy, big penises. And of course as we get older our lists changes. We want a big credit score.



The same lists you make for the qualities he must have---make the same lists for your self. Stop making the situation (date) more than it is-----go out have fun-- nothing more nothing less. If you have more rules than dates ---than it is possible you have too many rules. No one said settle----you should have standards but why should the standards be unobtainable.



There are several social sites to re-connect us to our last or long ago lovers. There is an abundant amount of dating sites to help us along the dating battle grounds. I can’t personally recommend any sites because I have not used any----but I do have friends whom can testify to its usage. The dates are random and awkward. The dates could be fun and interesting to say the least—but how much does one except to gain from a computer love match. What happened to the accidentally bump into and a smile across a crowded room. Now we have advanced to blackberry messenger and I Phone connections. I have met a lot of men on tagged.com but what kind of man did I really meet the real dude or his lying representative either way it was a hit or miss situation.



What will make US more marketable? Degrees, property owned, businesses owned, because every woman I have met has the same body parts so what will make you stand out above the rest---YOU---your personality and your sexual appetite---seriously man really like woman that like what they like---I definitely not talking about changing YOU for a HIM---just that the him you chose should be similar to your YOU. Never lose yourselves to have a HIM---because you would surely be unhappy and began to leash out on HIM and the people closest to you in your life.



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